I had never been told by my parents that certain forms of 'work' were not for girls or women. Infact, I had done most of the chores boys usually do around the house-like changing bulbs,painting,minor electical repairs,shopping,paying bills,running errands etc.
To many of you, this may seem normal,but, I was brought up in a small town where 6 p.m. was curfew time in college,half the 'Nagar' or locality seemed like an extended family and girls in the neighbourhood knew which new dress I wore on which day to college😅.
In a town like Bhubaneswar,most girls were to 'have' a 'degree',i.e. to be a graduate atleast. This rendered them suitable for marriage!
The other lot included girls like me,who studied for the love of it. Graduation-the degree gave me a solid foundation for my future. We had very good teachers,but,I would have loved to study in LSR or DU. I made a promise to myself to get what's best in the next phase-Post graduation. Graduation in Sociology woukd be great in my college itself,we had 2 of the best professors in the state.
To many of you, this may seem normal,but, I was brought up in a small town where 6 p.m. was curfew time in college,half the 'Nagar' or locality seemed like an extended family and girls in the neighbourhood knew which new dress I wore on which day to college😅.
In a town like Bhubaneswar,most girls were to 'have' a 'degree',i.e. to be a graduate atleast. This rendered them suitable for marriage!
The other lot included girls like me,who studied for the love of it. Graduation-the degree gave me a solid foundation for my future. We had very good teachers,but,I would have loved to study in LSR or DU. I made a promise to myself to get what's best in the next phase-Post graduation. Graduation in Sociology woukd be great in my college itself,we had 2 of the best professors in the state.
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